Jarome Luai’s decision to leave the Penrith Panthers comes as the latest sad blow for Brian To’o, who has already seen two of his other ‘brothers’ depart the club this season. To’o has formed a life-long bond with fellow Samoan players Luai, Stephen Crichton and Spencer Leniu during their time at the Panthers, describing them as more like brothers than teammates.

But in 2025, To’o will be the only member of the quartet playing for the Panthers. Crichton has joined the Canterbury Bulldogs for the 2024 season, while Leniu will line up for the Roosters.

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And in the latest crushing blow for To’o, Luai confirmed last week that he’ll be heading to the Wests Tigers in 2025 on a five-year deal worth $6 million. The Panthers have become victims of their own success and the NRL’s salary cap after winning three consecutive premierships.

As well as Luai, Crichton and Leniu, they have also been forced to say goodbye to the likes of Matt Burton, Viliame Kikau and Api Koroisau in recent years because they simply can’t afford to keep them. And while To’o, Luai, Crichton and Leniu will likely be friends for life, it doesn’t make it any easier having to split up.

Crichton was a groomsman at To’o’s wedding last year, while Luai was the best man. “’Bizza’ (To’o) was the first person I told,” Crichton said last year about his decision to join the Bulldogs. “He and his partner were pretty emotional. I grew up with them and he’s been my best mate ever since footy started.

“It was pretty sad telling him. I told him first out of all the boys, but I’m just trying to lap it up with Bizza and our last few sessions together. We’re heaps tight. Just the bond that we’ve had and success that we’ve had brought us together.

“Just not on the field, but off the field it’s just always fun, always mucking around. Our families are pretty close, too. We go to the same church as well, so we’ve kind of been together ever since we were young. We’re not brothers by blood, but we are brothers by choice. If I don’t see him for three months, we can catch up one day and it’s like we’ve never been apart.”